RE: FELLAS...what's your beef???

Ok, now I feel I can truly answer your question. I wanted to do this in the first place because your blog today was worthy of a good comment. I just knew that if I was gonna get that comment right, I'd have to put it in blog so everyone can understand. Everything I said earlier still holds true.

I'm gonna eloborate on my comment

Let me be honest and say, I was waiting for this blog like a child waits for
Christmas! You know I stopped thru yesterday to see what the ladies had to
say. I genuinely wanted to see what they had to say. A lot of what the
ladies said, I could agree with. There are areas we need to improve on.
However, there's some things that you do that bother us as well.

I'll give you 3 things that bother me the most.

1. Women that treat the next man like shit because of what the last boy did
to her.

2. Women that don't understand that when I say, "I don't want to talk about
it." That is exactly what I mean.

3. Women that go back and run they mouth about shit we going thru to her
girlfriends.

Aight, when I say treat the next man like shit because of what the last boy did....why do women hold on to that anger and resentment? You hold on to it enough to scare away any potential good man that would want something to do with you. You know what I'm talking about too. We give you a compliment and you come back with some backhanded statement. Turn the damn page....PLEASE!

When I say, "I'm not in the mood to talk about it." That is exactly what I mean. I know some women feel like they just gotta make their man feel good if he's upset. Trust me there is nothing wrong with that. But please, stop. When we get angry, we do not like to talk it out because it won't make us feel better. We are angry for whatever reason and talking about it only makes the situation worse.

Why in the hell do you feel the need to confide in every last girlfriend you have sometimes. Don't you know they will fuck your head up! There is nothing worse than a man having to hear about what goes on in his house from someone else. On top of that....finding out it was you who went and told Skittles and Pebbles our business. Come on now.

That includes arguments too. Why is it women feel the need to argue their point wherever they please. There is a word called tact. Check your emotions and start thinking rationally. If you didn't notice your PDE (Public Displays of Emotion), can get me arrested for a Domestic Dispute. I know I don't want to spend aa night in jail because i know you ass won't come bail me out. All because you couldn'twait until we got home to talk it out. You gotta be heard right then and there. Calm that shit down.

Why is it....as soon as I exercise my preference, I'm wrong! What the fuck is that about? I'll give you an example. I was at The Alley last Saturday. It's this club out in Newport News, Virginia. Anyway, most of the women that go there have a thing for "thugs" or "gangsta" or what have you. I am neither if the two. This woman comes up to me, and she is a big girl. Not my cup of tea you dig? When I say big I don't mean thick, I mean this woman was obese. I don't like bog girls like that. Just my preference. Instead of entertaining the thought I politely let her know that she is not my type. She has the nerve to get mad and call me all sorts of scrub's, busta's and yadda yadda yadda. Everyone that knows me, knows that when I'm in a club I'm chillin and to myself. So I before something rash came out my mouth I asked her did she have a preference in the types of men she wanted to be with. She said yeah. So I ask her, so why the fuck did you get upset with me when I had a preference not to talk to you. She shut up then. So when a man prefers not to do something, don't bash him for it.

All in all, I love my ladies to death, but some of the same shit you say we do wrong or that irks yawl. Irks us too. It's a double-edge sword and until you start COMMUNICATING with your partner, you will continue to go thru the same pains of not "finding a good man."

DAMMMMNNNNN!!!!! That had to hurt!

Before I start this here blog, I just wanna say this had to have been the most amazing sporting event I have ever witnessed on live TV. His name is Jake Brown....and he's my fuckin' hero man!!!! For those that don't know this cat had the worst bail out, not only in X Games history.....but quite possibly in the history of the sport. It was so bad that Tony Hawk said, "That was the heaviest slam we've ever seen!"

That's right, the YouTubers across the globe have dubbed him Jake "Fall Down" Brown. This 32 year old Aussie fell from an estimated 50 feet to the flat portion of the "Big Air" ramp. The amazing thing is, he got up and walked away. Just to put it into perspective, go to the fifth floor of a building and jump out the window. Yeah! I really hope this guy is counting his blessings.

What's even crazier is he plans on coming back and attempting it again.

Here's the video footage. You'll see his shoes go flying off his feet! I'm no "Skateboard P" but I will tell you, there's something not right about falling 50+ feet and walking away.

What seems to be the problem?

Imagine this if you will....you and your mate are hand in hand, strolling through this journey called life. The birds are chirping, the sun is shining, there is a slight gentle breeze. All in the world seems fine because you are with you with the person you love. You finish each other's sentences and thoughts. Everyone around you says you two have the perfect relationship. You two have never had an argument, and if you did you used your excellent communication skills and talked about it. When the Kool-Aid is down to the last drop, you make more instead of putting in the fridge for your other half to find. You send little I'm thinking of you email's and text messages throughout the day. So I want to know how in the hell does this take a turn for the worse.

How do you go from that, to this? You can't stand the sight of each other, I mean yawl on some "War of the Roses" type of shit. You wish everything bad in this world happens to your other and only that person. Communication is little or nothing. Sex has become more of a chore than recreation. You two can't even be in the same room let alone the same bed. The "I love you!" texts have turned into, "I wish you were dead!" texts. You start picking fights because you want an excuse to be mad at the other. How does this happen? Men, are we doing something wrong? Can it be the women doing something wrong? How in the hell do you go from strawberries and cream, to shit and beans?

I want opinions people. What in your opinion, does the other person do wrong in a relationship? What does she do wrong fellas? What does he do wrong ladies? Or if you feel brave enough, tell us something you may have done wrong in a relationship. Here's your chance to tell it like it is.